It’s been a while since I’ve last sat down to write. I have gone through a lot since December, 2015. I lost my Nephew of Memphis, TN, my mother of Chicago. IL, and my nephew’s mom of Memphis, TN and just recently, October 28, 2016 I lost another sister of South Bend, IN.
You never know what a person is going through by looking at their outer appearance. Looks are very deceiving. Even though a person’s outward appearance looks as though nothing is wrong, don’t be fooled. Looks are very deceiving. My sister didn’t appear to look sick to me at all. My sister Veronica lost her battle to breast cancer on October 28, 2016. I was fortunate to see my sister before she passed away. My oldest sister, and I got there in time to say our last goodbyes, while being under Hospice Care. Breast Cancer: Causes, Symptoms and Treatments – Medical News …
If there was any way of me knowing that my sister would no longer be here, I would have never left South Bend, Indiana. I now live in Memphis TN. It was her outer appearance that had me fooled. She looked as though she was never sick the last time I saw her. She had managed to make it to Memphis, TN, for my Nephew’s funeral, the day after Christmas 2015, and she was also able to come back to Memphis, TN to attend his mother’s funeral in March, after losing our mother in February. Who would have known, that she would be the next to pass away in October?
The reason I say that grief is a reality check, is because grief is something that we will all encounter on some occasion. Grief comes in many forms. You can grieve a person, a pet, a job, even the loss of a home. What’s important is to allow yourself to grieve and seek help if needed.
We live in a society in which mental illness is very prevalent. Grief can be mentally draining. It can alter your mental state if you are not careful. It is very important to seek counseling if needed. Don’t be afraid to seek help. There are 5 Stages Of Grief. If you can conquer these stages, I can honestly say, that you will be well on your way of becoming healthy again.
Think of it as going to the doctor’s office to seek medical attention, to get medicine, to get well.